The only paved roads in the Kalahari region are:
From Maun to Gaborone via D’Kar, Ghanzi and Kang
From just south of Ghanzi to the Namibian border
from Kang to Hukuntsi
For everywhere else, and certainly for exploring parks and reserves, you’ll need your own 4WD unless you’re staying one of the region’s luxury lodges.